Adoptive and Foster Dad Refresh
Adoptive dads face unique challenges related to their spiritual journey, marriage and children. We give attention to these areas and encourage each other to carefully shepherd our families.
We'd like to return to the topic of shame and dig a bit deeper into this topic. I would suggest the book by Curt Thompson titled, "The Soul of Shame" as a reference for our discussions.
Feelings of shame can have harmful outcomes in our relationships. Most children coming to our homes from other family systems will have a deep core of shame already pre-loaded. It may be that many of us do as well. This hinders building trust and secure attachments.
Shame loves to stay hidden. We will attempt to drag it out of the shadows to help us live in freedom and grow in our parenting capacities.
April 2024 trainings and humanitarian support in Poland & Ukraine
Lviv, Ukraine
Lityn, Ukraine
Kherson, Ukraine
Odesa, Ukraine
Mykolaiv, Ukraine
Izmail, Ukraine
Warsaw, Poland
October 2023 Poland and Ukraine
Facilitating participatory learning seminars for parents, social workers, displaced families and Trauma counselors in the following locations:
Oct 11 - 12 Warsaw, Poland — Restoring Trust and Value — (YWAM Caregiving for Orphaned Children)
Oct 14 Lviv, Ukraine — Grieving, Healing, Growing (New Hope Ukraine Ministry)
Oct 16 Ternopil, Ukraine — Grieving, Healing, Growing (Foster Parents in Ternopil)
Oct 17 - 18 Rivne, Poland — Grieving, Healing, Growing (Foster Parents from Dnipro)
Oct 20-21 Village near Mykolaiv — Visiting ministry of Heritage Ukraine
Oct 23 Kherson — Grieving, Healing, Growing (My Home) Parents and caregivers of traumatized children
Oct 25-26 — Conference on Healing Trauma Wounds
Oct 27 — Izmail, Healing Trauma Wounds (Baptist Church ministry to displaced families)
Adoptive and Foster Dad Refresh
Adoptive dads face unique challenges related to their spiritual journey, marriage and children. We give attention to these areas and encourage each other to carefully shepherd our families. During our time together, we will discuss the challenge of offering developmentally helpful nurture and structure in our relationships.
Many of our adopted children are prone to destructive behaviors during their teens and early 20's. The reasons are many layered. For Christian fathers, the domain of sexual activity is probably the most disturbing to figure out. This Saturday morning, we'll discuss some possible strategies to help us move through this challenging season.
Adoptive and Foster Dad Refresh
Adoptive dads face unique challenges related to their spiritual journey, marriage and children. We give attention to these areas and encourage each other to carefully shepherd our families. During our time together, we will discuss the challenge of offering developmentally helpful nurture and structure in our relationships.
Adoptive and Foster Dad Refresh
Adoptive dads face unique challenges related to their spiritual journey, marriage and children. We give attention to these areas and encourage each other to carefully shepherd our families. During our time together, we will discuss the challenge of offering developmentally helpful nurture and structure in our relationships.
November 2022 Poland Trip
Training for adoptive parents, foster parents and social workers in the following locations:
Rzeszow, Poland — TBRI Empowering — November 3
Krosno, Poland — Attachment — Seeing the Child you have — November 4
Wrocław, Poland — TBRI Introduction and Orientation — November 5
Swidnica, Poland — Grieving Well -- November 7
Gnask, Poland — Family visits — November 8-10
Frankfurt, Germany — Family Visits — November 11-14
Retreat for Adoptive and Foster Dads
Adoptive dads face unique challenges related to their spiritual journey, marriage and children. We give attention to these areas and encourage each other to carefully shepherd our families. During our time together, we will discuss a few of the unique challenges we face. Lot’s of time for engaging conversations as well as laughter and maybe a few tears.
Attachment and Grace
We will look at how an insecure attachment might affect my relationship with God, my children, my spouse, and others. We will discover the origins of insecure attachments and how, by the grace of God, we can work to repair them.
Adoptive and Foster Dad Refresh
Adoptive dads face unique challenges related to their spiritual journey, marriage and children. We give attention to these areas and encourage each other to carefully shepherd our families. During our time together, we will discuss the challenge of offering developmentally helpful nurture and structure in our relationships.
Attachment and Grace
We will look at how an insecure attachment might affect my relationship with God, my children, my spouse, and others. We will discover the origins of insecure attachments and how, by the grace of God, we can work to repair them.
Adoptive and Foster Dad Refresh
Adoptive dads face unique challenges related to their spiritual journey, marriage and children. We give attention to these areas and encourage each other to carefully shepherd our families. During our time together, we will explore the topic of unrealized expectations and how we might deal with them.
Adoptive and Foster Dad Refresh
Adoptive dads face unique challenges related to their spiritual journey, marriage and children. We give attention to these areas and encourage each other to carefully shepherd our families. During our time together, we will explore the topic of unrealized expectations and how we might deal with them.
Adoptive and Foster Dad Refresh
Adoptive dads face unique challenges related to their spiritual journey, marriage and children. We give attention to these areas and encourage each other to carefully shepherd our families. During our time together, we will explore the topic of unrealized expectations and how we might deal with them.
Adoptive Parents Seminars in Russia December 2021
December 3-4 in Rostov
December 5 in Moscow
December 6 in Inozemtseva
December 7 in Inozemtseva
August 2021 trainings in Ukraine/Moldova
August 7 Moldova
Augusts 10-11 Kherson
August 12 Odessa
August 14 Kropyvnytskyi
August 16 Ternopil
August 21 Dnipro
August 24 (Zoom with Russia group)
August 27-28 Kharkiv
Hope For The Journey Simulcast Conference
In partnership with Bethlehem Baptist Church South, imago hearts will host Hope for the Journey Simulcast Conference
The Hope for the Journey Conference will equip parents and caregivers meeting the everyday needs of children and further resource churches in their endeavors to be beacons of hope and encouragement for families in their congregation and surrounding communities.
Featuring Trust-Based Relational Intervention® methods developed by Dr. Karyn Purvis and Dr. David Cross from the Karyn Purvis Institute of Child Development at TCU to help deepen connection in families.
Register at Eventbrite:
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/hope-for-the-journey-tickets-142915085869?aff=ebdssbeac
Presented by SHOW HOPE
Parenting Wounded Children
Three day Conference and Workshop with social workers, orphan care workers and foster parents.
November 2019 Trainings in Ukraine
Training for adoptive parents, foster parents and social workers in the following locations:
Cherkasy, Ukraine — November 16 — Seven Miraculous Musts
Dnipro, Ukraine -- November 19 -- TBRI Correcting Principles
Kherson, Ukraine -- November 20 -- Seven Miraculous Musts of Parenting Children with Trauma
Mykolaev, Ukraine -- November 21 -- TBRI Correcting Principles
Odessa, Ukraine -- November 22 -- “At Risk” Family Trainings
Odessa, Ukraine -- November 23 -- TBRI Correcting Principles
Building Trust -- A Biblical Framework for Parenting Wounded Children.
https://my.bethlehem.church/portal/event_signup.aspx?id=198013
Foster and Adoptive Parenting Conference
Pathways to the Heart; Beginning with the Children of Israel, we see that our heavenly Father is intentionally and actively working to win the hearts of His people. Often times, adopted parents find themselves needing to rebuild the foundation of the child’s belief system. We take a look at a biblical model, which offers a paradigm to do so. We then discuss day-to-day parenting strategies, which, when implemented, can help win the child’s trust and build their sense of value.
DadAid -- At Grace Church
FOR Adoptive Dads BY Adoptive Dads.
Adoptive and foster dads face unique challenges related to their marriage and children. We give attention to these areas and encourage each other to carefully shepherd our families.
Be The Spark! Adoption and Beyond Conference
I will be leading a workshop at this conference titled, "The Dad who Comforts"
The main speakers for this conference are David and Jayne Schooler. David has served in the pastoral and counseling ministry for over 40 years. Both David and Jayne are recognized nationally and internationally as speakers/trainers in the field of adoption and foster care. Serving full time with Back2Back Ministries their international work takes them regularly to India, Nigeria, Mexico and Haiti.
Jayne is the author/co-author of eight books in the field of child welfare including Wounded Children, Healing Homes: How Traumatized Children Impact Adoptive and Foster Parents and Parenting in Transracial Adoption. David and Jayne are parents by birth and adoption and grandparents of four.
Adoptive Dads Double Portion
Adoptive and foster dads face unique challenges related to their marriage and children. We give attention to these areas and encourage each other to carefully shepherd our families.